First, I eliminate the ambiguity. I do not ask women I’m interested in to “hang out”. I ask them on dates. I have lots of girl friends who I hang out with all the time. But if I am looking to put my face against someone else’s face at the end of the night then I make sure they know the option is on the table. Don’t get me wrong, I have been in situations where a platonic hang out with a single friend turns …