Though I don’t feel great about it, Jo says that having The Ick isn’t fickle. We will all notice things we don’t like somewhere down the road of a new relationship with a new person. She suggests that when you are hit with the impact of The Ick, listen to it and don’t forget you can do something about it — preferably sooner rather than later. Take stock of where it’s come from, whether it’s a you thing or a them thing, and “nip it in the bud depending on what its actual meaning is”.